Finding Beauty in Marriage

FBIM S1 E18 - 9 Important Pillars of Marriage

In this episode of Finding Beauty in Marriage, we’ll discuss the foundational “Pillars of Marriage,” rooted in Galatians 5:22, which describes the fruit of the Spirit. These attributes—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—are described as essential pillars to support and sustain a marriage. The episode emphasizes the importance of inviting the Holy Spirit into marriage, allowing these attributes to strengthen the relationship.
Each pillar brings a unique strength: Love unconditionally binds couples, Joy provides lasting strength, and Peace fosters harmony. Patience allows for growth, Kindness enriches, and Goodness nourishes the relationship. Faithfulness secures loyalty, Gentleness encourages understanding, and Self-Control protects and upholds marital integrity.
These pillars are not only attributes to aspire to but tests that deepen commitment. By actively seeking and practicing the fruit of the Spirit, couples invite God to be the ultimate pillar that holds their marriage together, even through life’s storms. Let this episode inspire you to pray for and walk with these attributes in your marriage, building a relationship that reflects God’s presence and love.

FBIM S1 E17 - Pursuing Agape love in your marriage

In this episode, we explore the profound role of agape love in marriage, emphasizing its unconditional nature as a foundation for enduring relationships. Agape love, as demonstrated by God, requires us to choose love even in difficult times, without conditions or expectations. We discuss practical ways to cultivate this type of love in marriage, including making love a decision rather than an emotion, forgiving unconditionally, and trusting God through challenges. Tune in for insights on how this divine love transforms marriages and helps build stronger, lasting relationships.

FBIM S1 E16 - Ten ways to rebuild broken trust in your marriage

In this episode, we explore the journey of rebuilding trust after it has been broken. We discuss the importance of offering a genuine apology, understanding the root causes of the breach, and being patient throughout the healing process. You'll learn practical steps to regain trust, such as committing to transparent communication, seeking professional support when needed, and the power of forgiveness. Whether you're trying to restore trust in a personal relationship or helping someone navigate this challenging process, this episode provides actionable insights for lasting healing and growth. Leave your thoughts in the comments!
 

FBIM S1 E15 - Ten different emotions and their impact on marriages and relationships

In this episode Ten Different Emotions and Their Impact on Marriages and Relationships. We delve into the emotional dynamics that play a crucial role in every relationship. From jealousy and resentment to gratitude and disappointment, we explore how these emotions build up, often unintentionally, and affect our marriages. Gain practical tips and strategies to recognize, manage, and turn these emotional challenges into opportunities for growth and deeper connection with your partner. Whether you're just starting your journey together or have been navigating the ups and downs for years, this episode offers valuable insights to strengthen your bond. 
00:00 Intro02:00 Love 04:58 Jealousy 13:28 Anger20:30 Gratitude26:22 Sadness33:25 Resentment 41:54 Fear51:37 Confusion01:03:53 Joy01:08:11 Disappointment 01:18:58 Conclusion

FBIM S1 E14 - Finding your partner's love language - What is your love language?

In this episode, we're exploring the critical importance of understanding and speaking each other's love language. Whether you're navigating the early stages of a relationship or looking to strengthen a long-term partnership, knowing how to effectively communicate love and appreciation can make all the difference. Stay tuned for insightful tips and practical advice that will help you and your partner connect on a deeper, more meaningful level.

FBIM S1 E13 - Ten signs your marriage is doing well

Marriage is a journey filled with highs and lows, moments of joy, and challenges that test our commitment and love. But how do you know if your marriage is truly thriving? What are the indicators that you're on the right path together?
In this episode, we'll uncover the key signs that signal a healthy and robust marriage. From effective conflict resolution and mutual respect to shared goals and values, we'll look at the elements that contribute to a strong, enduring partnership.

FBIM S1 E12 - Become the spouse you want to have

Good marriages are built on strong foundations, and being the best partner you can be is crucial to creating a happy, healthy, and lasting connection. Today, we want to talk about eight key traits that can help you become the best partner in your marriage. If you are single and looking, these are the traits you should be looking for in a partner, but most importantly, these are the traits you should aim to have. 

FBIM S1 E11 - Pursuing and Keeping purity before marriage with Phemelo

In this episode, we explore the choice to abstain from intimacy until marriage, a decision that challenges modern societal norms. Through a conversation with Phemelo Metswi who has made this commitment, we uncover the factors influencing her choice and the societal pressures she navigates daily. Whether you're contemplating this path or seeking to understand it better, this episode offers heartfelt and thought-provoking perspectives.